Recently met up with an old friend, Julian for old time's sake and we had lunch. Previously we took the course but we're at a different college. He's from KDU KL while I studied in KDU Penang but we met over the library one day when he's doing some study fair or something like that in Penang. We chatted and realized we got a lot in common.

Recently he's back to Penang for another business trip and we caught up pretty much every thing since the day I joined my current company and there was a lot of chit chat and talk.

Julian: "So, you have girlfriend yet?"
Me: "Nope."
Julian: "Apasal tak mau?"
Me: "No girls wanted a guy like me."
Julian: "Why not? You seem to look like a perfectly fine gentlemen."
Me: "Well, I'm not sure but most of the girls I meet, well, they tend to stay further to me. Now, for some girls that I'm not interested on, let's say it's the opposite reaction."
Julian: "What a lousy way to go huh?"
Me: "The problem is that those who's close to me tend to already have boyfriend and they keep confiding me in their problems."
Julian: "Aiseh man. Eh, like that jam one up and make them your girlfriend lar..."
Me: "Hah? No lar, I'm not that kind of person..."
Julian: "Hah! And you expect them to be nice like in the movies where you'll meet them, feelings all flying and live happily ever after?"
Me: "No but..."
Julian: "Let's face it bro. These days girls want guys to be bad. They want the badder guy so that they can have that sense of security."
Me: "That bad ar?"
Julian: "That's your problem man. You see, you don't go to pub or any night spots."
Me: "You got that right."
Julian: "That's where your problem is. You're just too... too... how do I put this word...."
Me: "Nice?"
Julian: "No no.... Look, I don't have the words for it. The thing is that you're don't go to night spot or disco or shit like that. And that makes you look weak. You see these girls have some rating running over their heads. If you're the bad type that steals their heart, then that's it. For you case, you need to look tougher. You need to have that bad look so that the girls will dig for you."
Me: "Aiseh man..."
Julian: "I'm serious man. You're not that bad looking. You just look like a bookworm. Trust me on this. Jam up a little baddie there and go clubbing. You can't go wrong with that."
Me: "I'm not comfortable in that kind of outlook man. I'm not against clubbing or something but somehow I happen to be a person who have no interest in night spots or something."
Julian: "Aw man, you want me to intro some chicks to you bro?"
Me: "Er......"