My friend's love life still rocking on the water. One fine day, he gave her a call and asked her out. She said she'll miss-call him but the poor fella waited for 3 days, still no call. He called her up again and asked what's the problem and she said she got lots of problem at hand. He offered to help and she said: "You will never help me".

A very typical situation so he told her if she never told him of her problem, how could she know whether he would help or not?

She said it wasn't the case: "You will definately not help me."

I'm very surprised too when I hear of this. I seriously think the girl is still bullshitting him. On positive side, I think she needs her space but at the same time, there's no point putting off the fella for 3 days without interaction. I wish I could call the girl and give her a piece of my mind. My friend being too soft-hearted pleaded me not to call her. *sigh* Some people are funny...

Why some people are mistreated this way? I sometimes ponder at the problem my friend is under. Is openning up to another person a very hard thing to do? Or perhaps they are scared to be judged for their problems?