Just had another long conversation with the friend that really cried her heart out... [Link]. It seems that the guy was a jerk. Now lemme see, the guy's hasn't owned a house or car, he only rely on the mother's house to be passed on to him. He used to own a car, but due to the nature of his work, now he cannot afford a car. He even told my friend that he could get a better income if he worked in KL. Nice. Now, my friend actually have to work off and not finishing her studies to make ends meet with this particular guy. And in the process, my friend has learned lots of bad habits such as smoking, drinking & swearing.

I was led to think if the boyfriend were such a good person (that's what she assured me) that he is a nice fellow who asked her to be herself. Oh my, now that's a load of crap. You may ask a person to be themselves but do retain their modesty. In example, it's alright to be yourself, I don't mind you having to pee all over my house? I'm torn within these days hearing her complain about her life.

I managed to console her with the advice: It's time for you to let go from this parasite. I told her of this and she was taken aback of my statement. Oh well, that's life... I just realized I get very less sleep over this matter. Okay, have to stop all communication.

Ensign, take us to dive, 50 feet off crush-depth. Maintain silence throughout the ship. Avoid any contacts unless necessary.